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38 — Hunter Hayes: Dealing with Loneliness, Prioritizing Mental Health, and Finding Coping Skills that Work for You

September 21, 2023

About Hunter Hayes

Hunter Hayes is a singer-songwriter and musician who became the youngest male act to ever top the Billboard Country songs. He has been nominated for five Grammys and won a Country Music Award for New Artist of the Year in 2012. Hunter’s most recent album, Red Sky, explores mental health struggles and the importance of prioritizing mental well-being.

 

Summary:

Hunter Hayes, a successful singer-songwriter, joins the Mentally Stronger podcast to discuss his experiences with mental health and the strategies he uses to prioritize his well-being. He emphasizes the importance of understanding that feelings of loneliness and struggle are universal and that seeking therapy is a valuable tool for personal growth. Hunter also shares his love for meditation, float tanks, and other self-care practices that help him maintain mental strength.

 

Key Takeaways:

  1. Loneliness and struggle are universal experiences, and it’s important to recognize that you’re not alone in your feelings.
  2. Therapy is a valuable tool for personal growth and understanding oneself better.
  3. Meditation and float tanks can help create a sense of calm and reset the mind.
  4. Taking breaks from technology and spending time in nature can be beneficial for mental health.
  5. Experiment with different strategies to find what works best for you in managing your mental well-being.

Notable Quotes:

“I think the biggest accomplishment is understanding that the more I work, the more tools I have, and the same things are going to come up, and that’s okay.” – Hunter Hayes

“I think the more that I’ve done [meditation], the more I’m just practicing, just breathing or just meditating.” – Hunter Hayes

“As much as you can put your phone down, try, and I am guilty of not doing that at all. I also believe that it’s one of the best things you can give yourself.” – Hunter Hayes

Timestamp Summary

[0:00:00] Introduction to the conversation with Hunter Hayes

[0:01:22] Hunter’s background and experience in the music industry

[0:04:15] Hunter’s experience with touring and the challenges of coming off the high

[0:06:00] Hunter’s realization of the loneliness that comes after touring

[0:07:25] The difference between being lonely and being alone

[0:09:04] Hunter’s perspective on fame and navigating the public’s perception

[0:09:41] Hunter’s decision to talk openly about his mental health struggles

0:09:41 The discuss the universality of struggles

0:10:22 Why a song Hunter thought was unique was relatable to others

0:12:11 The ongoing nature of mental health

0:14:11 Why Hunter wants to change the conversation around therapy

0:15:20 Self-worth and self-awareness

0:17:34 The pressure to create hits in the music industry

0:18:47 Pressure on artists to create something new and valuable

0:19:25 Self-worth tied to achievement and external validation

0:20:12 Focusing on what can be controlled and trusting the process

0:21:47 Patience and timing in releasing creative work

0:23:30 Managing external pressure and expectations

0:24:49 Seeking therapy, coaching, acupuncture, and float tanks for mental health

0:25:23 Importance of taking breaks and finding relaxation methods

0:26:20 Exploring meditation through apps, podcasts, and YouTube

0:27:48 Learning about meditation from various sources

0:28:06 Accessible resources for learning meditation, such as apps and videos

0:28:42 How sensory deprivation tanks help with burnout

0:29:59 The benefits of float tanks and hot-cold therapy

0:31:16 The therapeutic effects of going for drives

0:32:44 The value of unplugging from technology

0:34:05 Importance of being present in the moment

0:34:56 Gratitude for the conversation and platform

0:35:04 The Therapist’s Take

0:36:33 The power of therapy and self-discovery

0:38:00 Importance of self-care strategies for mental health

0:38:26 Recognizing the universality of experiences and investing in self-discovery

0:38:56 Free access to online course for leaving a review

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