49 — 7 Boundary Mistakes That Damage Relationships

Boundaries are essential for healthy relationships. Without them, you may feel resentment, or you may lose sight of your values.

However, setting boundaries can be uncomfortable and confusing if you’re not used to doing it. And you might make some mistakes that actually damage the relationship and create more stress for you.

If you struggle with boundaries, you’re not alone. Today, I’m sharing the most common boundary mistakes and strategies for avoiding them.

Key Takeaways:

• Lack of boundaries damages relationships as others have to guess what is acceptable behavior.
• Setting boundaries is a kind act towards oneself and others.
  Avoid apologizing for boundaries and instead say thank you for understanding.
• Boundaries can be communicated through actions rather than words.
  Boundaries should be about protecting one’s inner peace, not controlling others.
• Flexibility and compromise are important in maintaining healthy relationships.
• Avoid setting boundaries when feeling emotional and not ready to uphold them.