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Your brain plays psychological tricks on you when you try to change your habits. It will try to talk you into indulging in a bad habit and convince you to abandon your good habits.
Fortunately, there’s a powerful strategy we use in the therapy office that can boost your willpower right when you need it most.
Here are some things I share:
Key Takeaways:
“Your brain knows tons of tricks to tempt you, and it will use especially dirty tricks.” – Amy Morin
“Your brain will tell you that you deserve a break just so that you won’t go to the gym.” – Amy Morin
“Create your own list of reasons why you should or shouldn’t do something.” – Amy Morin
“Reading over that list motivated him to go work out anyway.” – Amy Morin
“All of those logical reasons about why she shouldn’t talk to him balanced out the emotions that tempted her.” – Amy Morin
“All of those logical reasons about why she shouldn’t talk to him balanced out the emotions that tempted her.” – Amy Morin
“Put it somewhere that you’ll be able to access it when you need it the most.” – Amy Morin
“Commit to reading over that list before you indulge in your habit.” – Amy Morin
0:00:00 The importance of changing habits
0:02:21 Strategy for talking yourself into doing something when you don’t feel like it
0:04:15 Creating a list of reasons why you should or shouldn’t do something
0:05:32 Examples of using the list to change habits
0:10:42 Optional step of reporting your decision to someone else
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