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60 — Face Fear and Embrace Uncertainty So You Can Live a Good Life with Best-Selling Author Jonathan Fields

December 4, 2023

Jonathan Fields discusses the concept of the good life and how it is defined by vitality, connection, and contribution. He emphasizes the importance of cultivating awareness and being intentional about filling these three buckets in order to live a good life. He also explores the fear of uncertainty and the role of mindfulness in overcoming it. Jonathan shares personal stories and insights on embracing one’s true self and finding deeper social connections.

 

Key Takeaways:

 

  • The good life is about filling the vitality, connection, and contribution buckets.
  • Awareness is the key to living a good life and making intentional choices.
  • Fear of uncertainty is often driven by the fear of judgment and social isolation.
  • Embracing one’s true self and being comfortable with awkwardness can lead to deeper social connections.
  • Assigning oneself a role in social situations can help alleviate anxiety and create a sense of purpose.

Quotes:

“A good life tends to happen when all three of those buckets are as full as they are capable of being filled.”

“We spend the vast majority of our lives trying to lock down the unlockable.”

“There’s profound giftedness and power and grace in the way that you’re wired.”

“Taking social risk is not easy, but it’s so worth it.”

“The metrics by which you’re measuring your life are actually not returning the feeling you hoped for.”

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