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135 — Build Mental Flexibility and Become More Open-Minded with Author A. J. Jacobs

August 19, 2024
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Open-mindedness is linked to better psychological health, increased happiness, and enhanced problem-solving abilities. But it can be tough to be open-minded sometimes in today’s world.
 
My guest is A. J. Jacobs, a journalist, lecturer, and New York Times Best-Selling author. His newest book, A Year of Living Constitutionally, explores how being open-minded used to be seen as a strength, not a weakness.

 
Some of the things he talks about are:
 

  • The profound benefits of gratitude
  • How humility and flexibility in thinking are key components in individual and societal growth
  • Why spending less time consuming sensational news can lead to better mental health and more productive problem-solving
  • How being flexible in your opinions based on new evidence is a strength rather than a weakness
  • How trying new things and framing life as a series of puzzles can lead to personal growth and creativity
  • How to view disagreements as puzzles so you can have more productive conversations

 

Key Takeaways:

 

  • Embrace Gratitude: Jacobs experienced profound benefits by actively expressing gratitude to individuals whose contributions often go unrecognized.
  • Limit Media Consumption: Reducing the time spent on sensational news can lead to better mental health and more productive problem-solving.
  • Value Changing Your Mind: Being flexible in your opinions based on new evidence is a strength rather than a weakness.
  • Create and Experiment: Trying new things and framing life as a series of puzzles can lead to personal growth and creativity.
  • Participate Actively in Democracy: Viewing civic duties like voting as a celebration rather than a chore can foster a positive attitude and community engagement.

Notable Quotes:

“Happiness does not lead to gratitude. Gratitude leads to happiness.” – AJ Jacobs

“I find the action of doing something makes you feel less powerless and more powerful.” – AJ Jacobs

“It takes courage to change your mind, and it takes courage to admit that you were wrong.” – AJ Jacobs

“Look at life as if it’s a puzzle. How can you solve it together?” – AJ Jacobs

Timestamp Summary

4:12 The Transformative Power of Gratitude

6:45 Living Like the Founding Fathers to Understand the Constitution

12:22 The Benefits of Slowing Down and Writing by Hand

18:35 The Impact of Constant News Consumption on Mental Health

23:44 The Courage to Change Your Mind

26:45 Framing Disagreements as Puzzles for Better Conversations

32:02 States as Laboratories of Democracy and Hamilton’s Controversial Idea

32:44 Expanding Creativity and Curiosity Through Diverse Perspectives

37:36 Reviving Election Cakes to Celebrate Democracy

41:05 Strategies for Becoming More Open Minded and Mentally Stronger

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