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279 — How to Rebuild Your Life After Hitting Rock Bottom with Best-Selling Author Jen Hatmaker

January 5, 2026
Mentally Stronger Jen Hatmaker Amy Morin

Do you ever wish you could reinvent yourself or that you had the courage to let go of a life that no longer fits? Do you struggle to trust your intuition or worry that it’s too late to start over? If so, today’s episode is for you.
 
My guest is Jen Hatmaker, a New York Times bestselling author with millions of social media followers. After 26 years of marriage, she discovered her husband was cheating. That moment forced her to confront her deepest fears, question her beliefs, and rebuild her life from the ground up.
 
Some of the things we discuss are:
 

  • Why we cling to stories that no longer serve us
  • How to rebuild your life after everything falls apart
  • Why grief and growth often happen at the same time
  • The importance of trusting your intuition and never abandoning yourself
  • How to prepare for life’s curveballs before they hit

 

Key Takeaways:

 

  • Reinvention After Crisis: Sometimes a huge change in your life can lead to significant personal growth. 
  • Embrace Duality: Growth and grief can occur simultaneously. Embracing these dual truths can lead to healing.
  • Trust Your Intuition: Trust your gut instincts and be honest with yourself if you want to live a more genuine life. 
  • Reevaluate Your Beliefs: Every once in a while it’s essential to step back and really evaluate what you believe and why you believe it.  
  • Build Mental Strength: It’s crucial to develop emotional strength and supportive relationships when life is stable so you’re prepared for challenges.

Notable Quotes:

"I would believe myself the first time. You know, our intuition and our wisdom is there as a guide."

"Divorce breaks a million hearts. It isn't just the end of a marriage between two people."

"My relationship with God is pretty relaxed and I feel really grateful for it."

"It was basically the best worst thing that ever happened to me."

"I will be in the driver's seat of my own car the rest of my life and eyes wide open, telling the truth, not just to everybody else, but to myself."

Timestamp Summary

0:00 Reinventing Yourself After Life-Altering Challenges

5:02 Rebuilding Life After Divorce and Personal Transformation

13:46 Simultaneous Grief and Growth

18:29 Public Grief and Resilience During a Crisis

22:46 Evolving Faith and the Challenges of Organized Religion

28:47 The Process of Self-Discovery and Resilience

40:50 How to Trust Your Intuition

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