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145 — Calm Your Nervous System With Therapist Liz Kelly

September 23, 2024
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Whether you’re nervous about a business meeting or you’re overwhelmed and aren’t sure why, it’s important to have strategies to calm your nervous system at a moment’s notice.
 
Liz Kelly is a therapist and she wrote a book called, This Book Is Cheaper Than Therapy. She offers actionable strategies for improving mental health and psychological well-being. Some of the things we talk about are:
 

  • The mental health tools to keep on-hand when therapy isn’t available
  • How stress manifests physically and what to do to calm your body
  • Practical self-help techniques that calm the nervous system
  • How to build resilience and reduce emotional reactivity over time
  • Why alcohol won’t calm your nervous system
  • The true self-care activities that improve long-term well-being

 

Key Takeaways:

 

  • Personalized Mental Health Strategies: One size doesn’t fit all; what works for someone may not work for another.
  • Mind-Body Connection: Understanding the connection between our physical and mental states can help in better managing stress.
  • Calming Techniques: Simple yet effective techniques like humming, mindful breathing, and progressive muscle relaxation can significantly calm the nervous system.
  • Daily Practice: Incorporating these strategies into daily routines can build stronger stress resilience and emotional regulation.
  • Self-Care Beyond Buzzwords: True self-care is about activities that improve long-term well-being, not just quick fixes like alcohol or social media scrolling.

Notable Quotes:

“Mental health is so incredibly personal. What works really well for one person might be awful advice for somebody else.” – Liz Kelly

“When emotional reactivity ramps up, our ability to problem solve and be creative goes way, way down.” – Liz Kelly

“By doing these practices, you’re helping those parts of the brain talk to each other so that you’re less reactive, you can problem solve more easily, and you can have more control over your emotions.” – Liz Kelly

“If you’ve skipped breakfast or you’re running on four cups of coffee and nothing else, these things can really impact how you feel.” – Liz Kelly

“The benefit of nature is you get a reset; it’s a way to detox from technology and push the reset button.” – Liz Kelly

Timestamp Summary

0:00 Concrete Strategies for Calming Your Nervous System

6:29 Understanding and Managing Stress Responses

14:12 Simple Techniques to Quickly Calm Your Nervous System

20:51 Power Posing and Nature Walks for Confidence and Calm

24:45 The Benefits of Yoga, Massage, and Gratitude Practices

28:33 Rethinking Alcohol and Self Care for Better Mental Health

31:57 Strategies to Calm Your Nervous System and Build Mental Strength

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