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People are not born inspirational. Everyone has the ability to cultivate the skills necessary to inspire others. So whether you want to inspire your kids to change their behavior, inspire your friends to live out their dreams, or inspire your colleagues to take a risk, you have the power to do that once you know how.
Adam Galinksy is a psychologist, professor at Columbia Business School, and the author of a new book called Inspire. Dr. Galinsky’s research on inspiration reveals that there are communication strategies and leadership traits that can be applied to parenting, friendships, and relationships.
Some of the things we talk about are:
“On average, force is an inappropriate way to lead people because force creates counter forces.”
“There’s a universal continuum between being inspiring and being infuriating.”
“When we share credit, we actually elevate ourselves.”
“Anyone can inspire us… our children can inspire us as parents.”
“Compliance works well in the short term and that’s why we get addicted to it, but over time it wears off.”
0:00 Reflecting on Parenting Styles and Leadership Approaches
1:56 The Science and Skills of Becoming Inspirational
4:06 Inspiration and Infuriation: Lessons from My Parents
6:38 Inspiration and Legacy Beyond Formal Leadership Roles
8:50 The Inspiring and Infuriating Leadership Spectrum
13:27 The Amplification Effect of Leadership and Parenthood
17:18 Three Dimensions of Being an Inspiring Person
23:14 The Power of Written Compliments in Building Positive Connections
26:21 Admiring Leadership: Strategic Thinking and Deep Humanity
29:09 The Power of Acknowledging Those Who Inspired Us
32:19 The Power of Perspective Taking in Leadership and Negotiations
37:39 Reflecting on Values and Power Boosts Mental Strength
42:03 Strategies for Becoming a More Inspirational and Influential Person
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