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73 — Calm Intense Anxiety in 30 Seconds

January 19, 2024

While calming music and meditation may work for mild anxiety, these may not be effective for intense anxiety. Fortunately, there’s a simple and fast strategy that can help you cope with serious anxiety.
 
By utilizing the mammalian dive reflex, the body’s panic response is halted right away, and you’ll experience a calming effect. You can get the reflex to kick in within 30 seconds to slow your heart rate and reduce your anxiety fast. Some of the things I share are why traditional coping skills don’t work for intense anxiety, how to trigger the mammalian dive reflex, and the science behind why it works so well.

 

Key Takeaways:

 

  • Traditional calming methods such as meditation and listening to calming music may not be effective against intense anxiety and could inadvertently heighten the sense of panic.
  • The “Mammalian Dive Reflex” presents a surprising but scientifically supported way to rapidly reduce anxiety by triggering an automatic physiological response.
  • By submerging one’s face in cold water or applying an ice pack and holding your breath, the heart rate declines dramatically, instilling immediate calmness.
  • This technique should be practiced in a safe setting, particularly for individuals with cardiac issues or those unable to safely immerse their face in water.
  • Preparing oneself with various strategies in a mental health toolbox ensures readiness and confidence when confronting episodes of extreme anxiety.

Quotes:

“When you feel anxious, your body revs up the engine, and you respond accordingly. When you hold your breath and dunk your face in cold water, your body reflexively stops panicking.”

“If dipping your face into a cold bowl of water isn’t feasible at that moment, try putting an ice pack on your face, around your eyes and your cheeks, and hold your breath.”

“We often do things that inadvertently make our anxiety worse. We try to calm ourselves down, and then when it doesn’t work, we panic over the fact that we still feel anxious, and that makes us feel even worse.”

“A slower heart rate means less anxiety.”

Timestamp

0:00:00 Introduction to the topic of intense anxiety

0:00:29 Overview of the mentally stronger Friday fix

0:01:27 Need for a different strategy for handling intense anxiety

0:02:24 Example of a TEDx speaker using calming strategies backstage

0:04:36 Introduction to the instant anxiety relief strategy

0:06:38 Explanation of the mammalian dive reflex

0:07:49 How the cold water trick calms the body down

0:08:55 Alternative methods if cold water is not available

0:09:52 Importance of testing the strategy beforehand

0:10:19 Personal experience of testing the strategy

0:11:53 Benefits of the cold water trick for reducing anxiety

0:12:27 Conclusion and invitation to subscribe to mentally stronger premium

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