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84 — This Therapy Strategy Will Help You Become the Person You Want to Be

February 23, 2024

Acting “as if” is a therapy strategy that helps people change their habits, their emotions, and their lives. It’s a simple but effective way to start creating positive change right now. And the good news is, it works for many different problems.
 
Some of the things I share are how “acting as if” works, what issues you can target, and what sort of results you can expect.

 

Key Takeaways:

 

  • “Acting as if” is a potent strategy for instigating personal change by behaving like the person you want to become.
  • Altering behavior is a pivotal step that can lead to changed feelings and thought patterns, strengthening mental resilience.
  • It’s possible to gain confidence and overcome fears by taking concrete actions, even when discomfort is present.
  • This approach emphasizes authenticity, not fakery, by expressing certain aspects of oneself fittingly with the situation.
  • Amy provides insight into her personal and professional experiences with clients who have benefited from “acting as if.”

Notable Quotes:

“Act as if you have energy. When you’re struggling with fear, act as if you feel brave. If you want to improve your health, act like a healthy person.”

“If you change your behavior first, the feelings will follow.”

“If you want to change your life, act like a mentally strong person.”

“True confidence was about knowing that she could handle being uncomfortable.”

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