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Your memory and your mental health form a two-way street. Remembering only negative things can worsen your mental health. But poor mental health can also cause your brain to only focus on negative memories.
Learning more about how your mind filters your memories could help you build mental strength. Dr. Charan Ranganath, a memory researcher at the University of California Davis and the author of Why We Remember, studies how our brains store and retrieve memories. Some of the things he talks about today are why certain memories stick in our brains, why many of our memories are faulty, and how we can use this knowledge to improve our mental health.
“If you think about all the things that you regret, things that are shameful, things where you failed, well, what’s going to happen is going to put you in a more negative mood. And the more negative of a mood you’re in, the easier it is to think about these things.” – Charan Ranganath
“It’s super important. And if you think about the traumatic memories that are often the hardest to deal with, they’re ones that are associated with shame that people don’t share with other people.” – Charan Ranganath
“I think that learning about memory is one of the most important things you can do to be mentally strong.” – Charan Ranganath
“The heart of a lot of what we’re talking about is memories have some accurate components to it. It’s not like we just make everything up, but there’s a lot of imagination that goes into it too.” – Charan Ranganath
“Sometimes that confidence can be really a good indicator if your memory is fairly pristine. But the problem is that every time we remember, we update the memory.” – Charan Ranganath
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